should i marry you?

Ask each other what matters, before you say yes.

Sixty questions, answered separately. When you have both finished, you see where you match, where you differ, and what to talk about next.

Three steps, about twelve minutes each.

  1. Answer on your own

    One question at a time, on your phone or your laptop. Nobody is looking over your shoulder.

  2. Invite your partner

    Share a short code or a QR code. Your partner answers the same sixty questions, without seeing yours.

  3. See your result together

    It opens for both of you at the same moment: your score, your strengths, and the topics worth an evening.

Ten chapters of a shared life.

  1. 01Commitment and vision of marriage
  2. 02Communication and appreciation
  3. 03Conflict and repair
  4. 04Money
  5. 05Children and parenting
  6. 06Intimacy and affection
  7. 07Roles, career and household
  8. 08Family, friends and boundaries
  9. 09Values, faith and worldview
  10. 10Everyday life

What the score tells you.

It shows how closely your wishes line up and how each of you experiences the relationship today. It cannot tell you whether to marry, and no questionnaire can. The decision stays with the two of you. We make sure you take it knowing what the other one thinks.