Questions about intimacy to ask before marriage
Being satisfied with your intimate life is closely tied to being satisfied with your relationship. Yet it is the subject couples find hardest to put into words.
Why it matters
Different needs for closeness are normal. They become a problem when nobody mentions them and each person quietly draws their own conclusions.
Six questions to ask each other
- What makes you feel close to me?
- How much physical affection do you need in everyday life?
- Is there something you wish for that you have not dared to say?
- How do we want to deal with times when one of us wants less closeness?
- What does a good intimate life look like for you in ten years?
- How can I tell you no without hurting you?
Find out where you two stand.
Talking is the first step. In the test you each answer sixty questions on your own and see side by side where you match and where you differ.