Questions about everyday life to ask before marriage
A marriage is mostly everyday life: where you live, how you spend your evenings, how tidy the kitchen is, how much time each of you needs alone.
Why it matters
Where to live is a core question, because one of you may have to give up a home. The small habits matter too, since you will live with them every single day.
Six questions to ask each other
- What does an ordinary good day look like for you in ten years?
- Where do you want to live in the long run: here, or somewhere else?
- City or countryside, and how far from our families?
- How much time just for yourself do you need?
- Which of my habits would be hard for you to live with for good?
- Do pets belong in our life?
Find out where you two stand.
Talking is the first step. In the test you each answer sixty questions on your own and see side by side where you match and where you differ.